DBT gets talked about a lot in mental health conversations. Some people swear it changed their lives. Others have heard the term but aren’t sure who it’s actually designed for.
The result: many people who could benefit from DBT never try it — and some who try it without a clear fit walk away thinking it didn’t work.
At Artisan Counseling, our counselors offer DBT-informed treatment in Newport News, Suffolk, and via telehealth.
What DBT Is (Briefly)
Dialectical Behavior Therapy was developed in the 1980s by Marsha Linehan. It teaches skills in four areas:
- Mindfulness
- Distress Tolerance
- Emotion Regulation
- Interpersonal Effectiveness
It typically includes individual counseling and group skills training.
Who DBT Was Originally Designed For
DBT was created for people with borderline personality disorder (BPD) — particularly those struggling with:
- Intense emotions that arrive fast and feel overwhelming
- Difficulty calming down once activated
- Impulsive behavior during emotional spikes (self-harm, substance use, binge eating)
- Relationships that swing rapidly from closeness to crisis
- A persistent sense of feeling things more intensely than others
Early research showed DBT significantly reduced suicidal behavior, self-harm, and hospitalizations in this group.
Other Groups DBT Helps
Chronic Suicidal Thoughts or Self-Harm
DBT remains one of the most studied treatments for this group. Skills provide concrete tools for surviving crisis moments without acting on urges.
Eating Concerns
Adapted DBT is effective for binge eating, bulimia, and related struggles. Distress tolerance and emotion regulation skills target the emotional spikes driving these behaviors.
Substance Use
DBT-SUD addresses urge cycles with mindfulness and distress tolerance skills, while emotion regulation targets what’s underneath.
PTSD & Trauma
DBT is often used to build stabilization skills before deeper trauma processing begins in EMDR or other trauma-focused work.
Adolescents
DBT has been adapted for teens, often with parent involvement, for emotional intensity, self-harm urges, and family conflict.
Anyone with Strong Reactions to Stress
Even without a diagnosis, DBT skills are useful for people who:
- React strongly to stress
- Struggle to calm down once activated
- Get caught in repetitive relational cycles
- Feel controlled by their emotions
Who May Not Be the Best Fit for DBT
People Who Cannot Commit to the Structure
Full DBT programs ask for significant commitment: weekly individual counseling, weekly skills groups, between-session coaching. If this isn’t realistic right now, a less intensive approach may be the better starting point.
People Who Want to Explore Their History
DBT is present-focused and skills-focused. It’s not designed for open-ended exploration of childhood or identity. Other approaches work better for that — though you can return to DBT when skill-building becomes the priority.
People Not Yet Ready to Change Behavior
DBT works best when you’re ready to actively change patterns. If you’re still figuring out what you want, Motivational Interviewing or open-ended counseling may be a better starting point.
How to Know If DBT Might Fit
Ask yourself:
- Are my emotions the main thing getting in the way of the life I want?
- Do I have gaps in how I handle distress, communicate, or stay grounded?
- Am I willing to practice tools regularly between sessions?
If yes, DBT or DBT-informed work is worth a conversation with a counselor.
Contact Artisan Counseling — 757.503.2819








